Dear friends, if you have landed here then it means you are looking for something in someone that you cannot explain. And you are seeking answers to your questions: What did I do to make her angry? Or Why is she like that always- why does she always blame me for everything? If you keep on asking these questions over time and tim e again, then that means you are not in a right relationship. It will consume you and you will always find yourself in the wro ng which, I would definitely say is not true!! I started writing this on 26th Feb 2025. Till about 2 years back, from the 16 years of my marriage, I did not know the meaning of the word Narcissist- a person who does not take any credibility of their action and always blames any mistake on others. Living with such a person is a terrible idea and even worse is bringing up a kid between you. I have seen changes in the small one since she was born. From being a happy, go lucky kid she is turning out to be a personality with...
Early on in my relationship, I had seen red-flags of the behavior. But being the optimistic I was at that time, I thought everything will fall in place. Least did I know that it would never be the case. Immediately after our engagement, I had an ice-breaker date. I had slipped off to a hill station near the place where she studied. We were living in two separate cities separated by 12 hours train journey at that time. We had a fun time that day. I never knew that I was actually digging my hole in the ground. When the meet happened and we retired to our respective places, there was an expectation brewing from the other end that I will coddle her. After the date, there were lot of phone calls and she would call frequently when she did not get thru me. I did not think of it that much. One day I was riding to home after work when she called me. My mobile was in my pocket and I couldn't feel the vibration. There were continuous calls and there was no respite to it. I felt t...